Love Shack

For the 4th time in the past two months, I was asked to explain and help with 'girl troubles' by completely great men. I've decided that it was time to blog about the advice that I give to each of them. The following advice goes for both men and women (!!)

1) Grow some cajones. Speak for what you feel and what you think.

2) Rejection is the worst that will happen, and that will never be the end of you.

3) Be proud of who you are as a person before being completely okay with pursuing someone. If you're not in the right mindset to love yourself, you won't be in the correct mindset to love another.

4) Fight for it. Fight for it as long as it still feels right.

5) People are stubborn and shallow. Make sure they're worth it.

6) If tomorrow didn't exist, what would you wish you could have said?

7) Don't wish the worst on the person you can't be with. Hope they find exactly what they're looking for and send good vibes their way regardless of how much they hurt you.

8) Never settle out of loneliness.

9) Self-doubt is worse than rejection. Always try.

10) "Separate the ones who knew you from the ones who couldn't bother to see you for all that you are" - Tilly and the Wall


hugs and kisses. all the best in all your conquests.